All that is seen and applauded is the end result! What about: The struggle. The rejection. The embarrassment. Being the subject of gossip. Loneliness. Thoughts of suicide. Vulnerability. The pain. Broken promises. Word Curses. Sexual violation. Alcoholism. Legal issues. Depression.  BUT GOD!!! Grace. Love. Repentance. Forgiveness. Deliverance. Restoration. PURPOSE!